Losing trust is a terrible thing.
It’s like the ground is pulled from under our feet, and we don’t know where to step next.
It also makes us angry. What right do they have to do that to us?
God says to stop it! That’s not good for us, good for them, or good for our relationship with the Father.
We must forgive our betrayer, and the Word gives us 6 reasons why.
Matthew 6:14-15 tells us our spiritual well-being depends on our forgiveness.
“For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
Our peace and assurance – achieved through our relationship with Christ – is more important than our grudge satisfaction.
Mark 11:25 says our prayers to the Father will be hindered by our anger at our betrayer.
“And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”
We must clear the slate between us and them so God can hear our prayers.
Matthew 7:12 reminds us of the Golden Rule.
“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”
How would we feel in our betrayer’s shoes? Forget the anger. How would we feel? That’s our consideration.
Hebrews 4:15 says Jesus dealt with betrayal and forgave his betrayers.
“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.”
We can do this. It’s Jesus’ example, and we are to live as he lived.
Genesis 12:3 is our promise that God’s got our back.
“I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”
To have someone’s back means we have someone watching out for us. God will take care of those who offend us or treat us well. It’s not our job.
Romans 3:23 tells us we all make mistakes.
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
We can’t afford to point a finger. When we do, we have three more pointing back at us. Try it and see. Then forgive those who’ve caused offense.
Betrayal hurts everyone. Forgiveness allows us to rise above it and move on. God expects it, and he will reward us when we do.
Walking with Jesus changes us for the better, and that’s a good thing.
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